bottle up emotions
/ˈbɒt.əl ʌp ɪˈməʊ.ʃənz/
Meaning
This phrase means to hide or suppress your feelings, especially negative ones like anger, sadness, or anxiety, instead of expressing them openly. It suggests that keeping these feelings inside will eventually lead to a sudden outburst or emotional distress. It is used in both casual and serious conversations about mental health.
Examples
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It's not healthy to bottle up your emotions like that.
It's not healthy to bottle up your emotions like that.
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She bottled up her anger for years before finally confronting him.
She bottled up her anger for years before finally confronting him.
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Instead of bottling up your feelings, you should talk to someone.
Instead of bottling up your feelings, you should talk to someone.
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He tends to bottle things up when he's stressed at work.
He tends to bottle things up when he's stressed at work.
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I realized that bottling up my grief was only making things worse.
I realized that bottling up my grief was only making things worse.
Common Mistakes
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✗ She bottled down her emotions.
✓ She bottled up her emotions.
The correct preposition is 'up', imagining a bottle being sealed tightly at the top.
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✗ Don't bottle your emotions; speak up.
✓ Don't bottle up your emotions; speak up.
While 'bottle' can sometimes be used alone in literary contexts, 'bottle up' is the standard phrasal verb used for emotions in daily English.
Related Expressions
Practice
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If you keep ___ your emotions, you're going to explode one day.
💡 Hiding or suppressing your feelings
Show answer
bottling up
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He prefers to ___ rather than talk about his problems.
💡 Keep his feelings hidden inside
Show answer
bottle up his emotions