instead of going

/ɪnˈstɛd ɒv ˈɡoʊɪŋ/

Meaning

This phrase is used to describe choosing one action over another, specifically when deciding not to go to a certain place or event. The preposition 'of' must be followed by the gerund form ('going'). It is a neutral and incredibly common way to discuss alternative plans in daily life.

Examples

  • Instead of going to the gym, I decided to go for a run in the park.

    Instead of going to the gym, I decided to go for a run in the park.

  • What are you doing tonight instead of going to the party?

    What are you doing tonight instead of going to the party?

  • We ordered takeout instead of going out to a restaurant.

    We ordered takeout instead of going out to a restaurant.

  • Instead of going by train, we saved money by carpooling.

    Instead of going by train, we saved money by carpooling.

  • She stayed home to study instead of going to the concert with us.

    She stayed home to study instead of going to the concert with us.

Common Mistakes

  • ✗ Instead of to go to the gym, I stayed home.

    ✓ Instead of going to the gym, I stayed home.

    The preposition 'of' must be followed by a gerund (-ing form), not an infinitive verb.

  • ✗ Instead to go, we ordered pizza.

    ✓ Instead of going, we ordered pizza.

    You cannot omit the preposition 'of' when pointing to an alternative action with a verb.

Related Expressions

rather than goingin place of going instead of

Practice

  • ___ to the movies, we decided to play board games at home.

    💡 Use a phrase that shows you chose board games over the cinema.

    Show answer

    Instead of going

  • Why did you stay at the hotel ___ to the beach?

    💡 Ask about the alternative choice of not visiting the beach.

    Show answer

    instead of going